The Hidden Costs of Going to Court
We all know that the financial cost of court proceedings is extremely high but what about the other costs, the hidden costs that we don’t always think about until it is too late? Court not only costs exorbitant amounts of money and time but it also bears an extremely heavy load on our emotional, mental and physical well-being not to mention the devastating emotional impact on all children, regardless of age.
Changeover…..Dos and Don’ts
It goes without saying that changeovers can be difficult. They can be difficult for everyone involved especially the children. Changeovers need to be stress-free, conflict-free and safe…….every time.
The changeover experience can change over time and is different for everyone. Some parents have positive conversations and catch-ups, others do not speak at all.
I have developed a simple guide on the dos and don’ts of changeovers. This is based on professional and personal experience, not only as a co-parent but also as a child of separated parents.
Here are some tips that can help changeovers run smoothly and safely for everyone, especially the children: